• About our obsession with labels

    Almost every day I hear from parents, news and social media about children’s difficulties in school and generally in life. It feels rather bizarre, but parents seem to be relived when their children…

  • Common isssues in our programming 3

    We do not account for our human nature   In our programming to deliver, achieve and perform we are trained to become perfect human beings and we forget we are evolved animals tormented…

  • How can I be more confident?

    How can I be more confident? Have you asked yourself the same question? Confidence comes across in my work frequently and I thought it’s worth reflecting on it a little. Some say that…

  • Letting go of fear as a parent

    Conditional validation make children feel worthless Children learn very early in life to live under pressure. They have to behave, learn fast, know the right answer, be the best, win, never fail, in…

  • When my right is your wrong

    Out of all the dichotomies there are, right & wrong has been probably the most used in the history of humanity and is today a common theme in our day to day narrative.…