Psychologist | Counsellor | Psychotherapist | Coach
MSc, BSc Hons, GradDip Psy, PgDip ClinHyp, AdvDip, PgDip
Hello! I’m Nicoleta.
I’am a Romanian/British clinical psychologist turned psychotherapist, counsellor and coach.
Why this journey? Simply because the more I’ve been with people and I’ve learned about our human mind, the less I felt the need to evaluate, judge, assess and diagnose.
It felt clear to me that, beyond our pretense, we all experience life the same and nothing that is human is foreign to any of us.
After working for many years in mental health, I am today a wellbeing advocate and I work in a person-to-person space with people’s wholeness & depth, away from labels, diagnosis and evaluations.
I guide them know themselves, understand the others and the world around them, find clarity and direction in love, move through conflicts, nurture positive and fulfilling relationships, heal inner wounds and create lives they love living.
You can learn more about my journey here.
MSc in CBT
BSc (Hons) Psychology
Graduate Diploma in Psychology
PgDip in Clinical Hypnosis & Ericksonian Psychotherapy
PgDip in Therapeutic Counselling
AdvDip in Hypno-Psychotherapy & Mindfulness
Life & Executive Coach
BPS – British Psychological Society
BACP – British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy
UKCP -United Kingdom of Counsellors and Psychotherapists
NSHPM – National Society of Hypnosis, Psychotherapy & Mindfulness
CNHC – Complementary and Natural Health Council
CPR – Council of Romanian Psychologists
Professional Standards Authority – Accredited Register
I was brought up by a wise grandfather and a mystical grandmother at the country side. They instilled in me the desire for knowledge and spiritual connection, also the need for freedom and space for exploration.
Born under the Cancer sign, I am naturally intuitive, emotional and sensitive, also very loyal, imaginative and sympathetic.
I love to immerse myself in every single experience with intense energy and passion for life. I lived the natural highs and lows of life and I survived communist oppression, childhood trauma and TNBC.
To relax and bring a sense of order in my mind, I love to cook, clean, dance, listen to music, read and write.
My ideal lifestyle combines quality time at home with travelling and spending time outdoors. I love walking, hiking, cycling and roller skating. I also find great pleasure in gardening, painting and wood carving.
I care about the environment and I am into healthy eating.
THROUGH THE EYES OF MY CLIENTS
“All my life I paid attention to the thinking in my brain and that was my addiction.
I stayed trapped into the same pattern of thinking because this is what I learned and I can now see that I was pretty much directed in life by my ego.
My ego kept me busy all the time focused on resolving my stupid conflicts from the past and pushing me harder to achieve more in the future.
I was trapped in that delusion and I never lived in the present where my life actually happened.
There were tears in my eyes when I realised I have not seen the sky, the trees or the flowers around me for so many years.
I felt overwhelmed by the noise of my constant thinking and the noise of the outside world and I would probably still be there if I would not have met you Nicoleta to challenge me to observe my thinking, to alert my consciousness and awaken.
Thank you for not giving up on me when I resisted myself so badly. You’ve been so insightful and sincere, yet open and compassionate and you helped me learn to stay still and to reconnect with my body and soul.
I had too much garbage in my mind and there was no room for genuine human connection and real relationships, just space for blaming and judgement.
It came at a cost, but I am grateful for this journey. I no longer believe my problems come from my parents and I have now regained control over my life.
There are no words to describe how I feel within me now and what a difference it has made to my wellbeing to reconnected with myself and heal the hurts from my past.
I grew so much as a person and artist in such a short space of time. Absolutely unbelievable…”
Female, 39, Artist